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Name SF: KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics Pre-Folsom Edition!
Producer Wicked Grounds
Time Saturday 6th of September 2025, 2:30 pm–5:00 pm (PDT)
Location Trellis, San Francisco, 981 Mission St, San Francisco, CA 94103
Category Education
This event is 18+ only.

SF: KINK 101: BDSM Negotiation Basics Pre-Folsom Edition!

with Miriam Green

Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn't necessarily come naturally -- especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene.

Description

Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn't necessarily come naturally -- especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene.

Join us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We'll talk about:

  • Negotiation styles
  • Pre-scene negotiations
  • How to negotiate without killing the mood
  • Checking in during and after the scene
  • Negotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics

Drawing on what we know about the psychology of a scene, we'll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter, more fun, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic. This series welcomes all genders, orientations, and dynamic styles. This workshop is designed for newcomers to BDSM but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications.

Since this is our pre-Folsom edition, we'll also talk a bit about how consent works in public spaces like kinky street fairs, conferences, and parties!

If you're curious to learn more about the public BDSM scene in San Francisco, join us at noon for our class Welcome to the SF Bay Area scene! You may get tickets to that here:

https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9eaf252c14

PRESENTER:

Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for over twenty years in the Austin, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds.

You may also book personal consulting and coaching sessions with them at https://WickedGroundsAnnex.com

TICKETING:

This month's class will be in person only in San Francisco.

https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/f90a7c765b

$30 suggested; sliding scale available.

Please note: This class is available for free to Wicked Grounds Patreon members who are subscribed at the VIP level ($30/month or higher). Use your member code for the discount.

If cost is a barrier at any point on the sliding scale, please use the Volunteer List at the bottom of the listing to request a scholarship seat.

ACCESS:

Attend at Trellis, 981 Mission Street near 5th Street in San Francisco. We are close to the Powell Street Muni/ BART station, the 14 Mission Muni line, and a public parking garage at 5th & Mission. We encourage the use of public transportation!

Doors will be open just after 2pm for a 2:30pm start time.

Or, start your day by attending our Welcome to the Scene class at noon and make a day of it. You may find tickets for Welcome to the Scene here: https://forbiddentickets.com/events/wicked-grounds/9eaf252c14

Volunteer List
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Wicked Grounds
San Francisco, CA
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