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Name ONLINE: How to Find the Top of Your Dreams
Producer Wicked Grounds
Time Saturday 26th of November 2022, 2:00 pm–4:00 pm (PST)
Platform ZOOM
Category Education
This event is 18+ only.

ONLINE: How to Find the Top of Your Dreams

with Ayzad

This lesson offers a full, step-by step blueprint to finally attaining that apparently elusive goal!


This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. No on-site tickets will be available.

Answering the most frequently asked question in kinky circles, this lesson offers a full, step-by step blueprint to finally attaining that apparently elusive goal. Participants will learn no “tricks” and definitely no pickup routines, but simply how to consider both the dominant’s perspective and their own actual shortcomings. We are going to address one’s motivations, expectations and understanding of the differences between fiction and reality. Then we’ll examine what makes someone attractive to a sensible, reliable dominant person - but also how to thin out the proposals when you are too successful. Are you ready for an effective transformation from ‘oh, here’s another annoyance’ to ‘I will do anything to get that person’?


Ayzad is a reformed journalist, a writer, and an alternative sexuality educator. He has been practicing kink for over 30 years now and Ayzad is the pseudonym under which in 2004 he wrote BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism, where he collected everything he had learned from his studies of a truly endless topic. That manual became a best seller, starting collaborations with sexologists and scholars who drew him to extend his research to every form of unusual sexuality.

The results include five other books so far (four of them currently available in Italian only, sorry!), a podcast, a radio show, two video series, countless lectures, and teaching collaborations. Today, education to ethical kink is Ayzad's full-time job. Among his attempts to make the world a nicer place he also launched The Sexual Explorers Manifesto initiative, and he is a coach helping people solve their unusual sexuality issues. was born to collect and share his daily discoveries about the lesser-known aspects of sex, to have fun together, and – as it always happens with these things – to better know ourselves. It is apparently working, given that he was listed among the world’s best sex bloggers.


$15 - $35 in advance. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.

We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.

The regular ticket is $25. This is what most people should pay.

The $15 ticket is offered for those for whom the $25 ticket would be a barrier to participation. If $25 is too much, we take your word for it! Just pay $15.

Have a great salary? Feeling generous? Paying at the $35 level allows us to make the discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

So - that's it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.


This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you may need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will not be recorded and is not available for later viewing.

Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

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This event is hosted/produced by:
Wicked Grounds
San Francisco, CA
Kink Community, Everywhere! An online kink boutique and educational resource! (18+)
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