Taking your BDSM not so seriously.
If you don’t take your BDSM (and yourself!) too seriously, you can have serious fun with one of these games — or variations of your own! Stefanos & Shay will demonstrate over a dozen kinky games, including “back-pocket” games you can work into any scene and “stand-alone” games that can be a whole scene by themselves. Participatory scenes like this make different requirements of bottoms — should you brat? How can you “play fair” and add to the energy of the scene? Tops have unique challenges as well- how can you keep it light & fun? How do you figure out good ways to “punish” the bottom when they “lose” the game? Stefanos and Shay, a dynamic duo known for their creative & silly scenes, will also discuss this type of play in a general sense to guide you in creating games to match your own unique dynamics. (This class is mostly demo and lecture, with some discussion.)
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About the presenters:
Stefanos & Shay's entertaining, information-packed classes have been called "better than a Vegas act.” They are energetic, engaging, exuberant exhibitionists – with a bit of an alliteration fetish! Shay is the author, and Stefanos the photographer, for Tying & Flying, the first-ever book on self-suspension; they co-edited and authored Creating Captivating Classes: A guide for kink, sexuality, and relationship presenters. In between traveling to present and perform, they are based in San Francisco, where they have hosted events and productions including acclaimed bondage and fetish performance event Twisted Windows, BENT (the Bay Area’s biggest dungeon party), Kink.com’s The Upper Floor, and Legion of Sin motorcycle club, as well as producing bondage and performances stages at the Folsom Street Fair, Seattle Erotic Art Festival, and San Francisco Pride’s Leather Alley.