Harness is community kink event where we can explore the edges of our kink, sex, creativity, and love. Dive into the doldrums of your comfort and play, and relax to the sultry sounds of smacks on the asses of our friends.
Transcendence Presents: Harness
Hosted by Nemi House
Join us Friday December 22nd and get your kink on! However you wear your harness, or whether you wear multiple, you are welcome here. Maybe you are looking to harness your new kinky energy, or maybe you’ve worn your harness for a long time and you can help others feel more comfortable with theirs. Either way, this is a place to learn, share and connect.
About the Event:
Harness is community kink event where we can explore the edges of our kink, sex, creativity, and love. Dive into the doldrums of your comfort and play, and relax to the sultry sounds of smacks on the asses of our friends. Have you ever wanted to create sex art, a scene, a workshop, or play space? Harness would love to help you workshop your workshop, develop your art, or try something new.
8:00-9:00 Sex Art Silliness: A community forum about the immersive sex art we want to see in the world and how to navigate consent and sex art.
9:00: Opening Circle (Doors close when opening circle starts)
Some snacks and water will be provided for aftercare, but please bring your own snacks based on your needs to this event.
Sex, nudity, and kink are all welcome in the space.
No: photography, blood play, scat play, fire play, or CNC
Anyone who has gone through our application process and agrees to our is welcome to join and we will be giving our consent expectations and guidelines at the door. No tickets are sold at the door.
New and would like to come to the event: please fill out our Harness Screening Application
About the Space:
The event is held at Nemi House. Nemi House is a sex-positive space in West Oakland, designed and built for the community.
The dungeon room has several large pieces of kink equipment and a queen bed. There is also a “squish room” which can accommodate quite a few people looking to lounge (great for aftercare). The main open social area is equipped with rated hard points, a cage and some other kink furniture. Lastly there is a full kitchen and bar, as well as an outdoor hot tub. Please note the outdoor area is visible to private residents. Nudity is allowed outside, but there is no play allowed outside. We ask that people keep their voices down after 10pm.
There is plenty of street parking, but please do not leave any valuables in your car as break-ins can happen. The neighborhood is an Oakland original, and is actually relatively safe. We know most of our neighbors. Please avoid parking in front of our neighbors' houses whenever possible.
We require everyone to bring a timestamped photograph of a covid antigen test at the door of the party, the results of a PCR test or Cue administered within 48 hours of the event or bring your own antigen test to administer onsite.
A limited number of covid antigen tests will be available at the door of the party—please bring your own test or test results, Thanks.