Virtual Consent Is Sexy with Stella VonDomme

The monthly Virtual Consent Is Sexy with Stella VonDomme for November is Sunday the 12th at 1-3 pm PST via Zoom.

This is an ongoing, buildable course that reviews the basics each class, but adds a new focus topic monthly. We focus on not only the ground level kink/BDSM information, but also discuss communication techniques and the basic definition and imperative nature of consent in our community. Those who complete a Consent Is Sexy class have the opportunity to join our private FetLife group to continue our journey in a safe and supportive space.

November Focus Topic: How To Approach Kink With Your Partner
That image from a magazine you saw when you were a kid has been living rent free in your brain most of your life. Porn and pics on FetLlife only make you want to try it more. But you don’t want to scare your partner or make them think you are a freak! Kinks and sexual desires have been so socially taboo that most of us have a hard time saying them out loud, much less to someone we love and respect. So what do you do?

In this installment of Consent Is Sexy, we are going to go over the desires and needs that keep us awake at night and how to relate them to your partner. You will leave with a few tools to broach the subject safely, language to use to describe the kink and your feelings about it, ways to prepare for their questions, and resources to potentially get you on your journey.

This class is great for newcomers to the community as well as those who have maybe been around for a while and need a refresher, someone who has had a steady partner for years and needs help navigating the outside community again, and even (especially) those who may have had run ins in the past and want to learn how to kink safely.