Sapphic QDP

Calling all sapphic queers, dykes, lesbians, bi/pan babes, trans femmes, and nonbinary lovers of women & femme energy!

What do your desires feel like? Your yes, your no, your “I don’t know yet”? What does it feel like to be held in someone else’s no?

This is an intimacy skill-building space. We gather to explore communication, desires, and boundaries. We center autonomy, consent, harm reduction, and the magic of non-normative, queer relational practices.

There is something deeply political and powerful about sapphic connection. About choosing softness, curiosity, and mutual care in a world that doesn’t always make space for us. This gathering prioritizes folks on the demisexual and asexual spectrum, those new to kink, and anyone wanting to more fully embody their desires in a supported, affirming environment.

Bring your sexy desires, your tender ones, your silly cravings, your yearning for closeness, your need for laughter, your want to be witnessed.

In this space, we practice RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). We encourage bringing your most recent STI results, but no one will be turned away, just come with honesty, care, and respect for one another’s autonomy and health.

If this is your first QDP, you’re so welcome here. Truly.

We’ve intentionally curated this space for self-identifying sapphics, women, and gender-expansive folk to have a soft, safe container to explore desire, intimacy, and juicy connection with one another.

To protect the sacred energy of this night, our entire hosting and facilitating staff also identify within this community. As such, we maintain a firm no-cis-men policy.

We will absolutely never police identity, presentation, passing, or genitals. This space is rooted in trust. However, if your public profile presents as a cisgender man, or if your alignment with a sapphic space isn't clear, we will reach out to ask a few clarifying questions before the event.

If you are currently transitioning, questioning, or haven’t come out publicly yet, that is completely okay. You do not need to change your profile or out yourself to the world to be here. We just ask for open, honest communication with our hosts so we can keep this container safe for everyone.

If this space was built for you, we cannot wait to hold you. If it wasn’t, thank you for respecting the boundary of our container.