When buying a ticket, for attendee name, give some identifiable information: FetLife name, scene name or phone number. We need this to know if you passed your screen.
Do not buy a ticket if you have not been screened!
Yes, a shower for a person. Please wear your purple band, thank you!
You must show the results to the test administrator. Upon verification by a test administrator that your COVID test result is negative, you may enter the party.
The goal of this play party is to create a safe space for new and experienced people where everyone is actively negotiating to obtain enthusiastic consent, while respecting the boundaries of others. Additionally, we strive for diversity and inclusion in gender identity, race, sexuality, and sexual preference.
Please know that the party is for adults only and identification, for proof of age, is checked at the door.
We will be selling COVID-19 rapid antigen tests for $15 at the door and optionally bundled in with your ticket ($12).
If you have not attended and want to, please fill out this form introducing yourself, to start the screening process.
Please know that the in the calendar month you apply, you're actually applying to go to following month's party.
If you're not on FetLife.com, simply email TheSafehouseParty@gmail.com.
You must be screened to attend the party! We verify every ticket holder was screened.
To offset the costs, there is a cover charge to afford food, beverages, damage repair and safe-sex supplies. The cost is $35. Please note that, if you complete testing after 8PM you are late and must pay an additional $20 at the door. (We want people to be on-time.)
However, if you want to bring something, in lieu of a cover charge, please message Sooosie and let her know what you are bringing at least 3 days before the party starts. The donation should approximately cover your door fee.
Here are some things you can opt to bring, in order of popularity:
We're don't accept donations of alcohol. This is an alcohol-free event.
If the cost is too high, please fill out the volunteer form! It’s a great way to meet people and you'd have our gratitude.
We have positions for:
If you haven't been to the parties, we suggest just starting off as a guest. Unless you're nervous, then we suggest you come early and help with setup to get a feel for your hosts and the environment.
A detailed guide to the party is available.