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Name The Educated Slut
Producer Raven’s Productions
Time Sunday 12th of July 2026, 5:00 pm–7:30 pm (EDT)
Location Feather & Flame, Burlington, MA
Category Education
This event is 18+ only.

The Educated Slut

Sex party etiquette, health considerations, and skills for a kink-aware life

Most of us sat through high school sex ed, but very few of us were taught how to navigate a truly expansive, pleasure-forward, ethically non-monogamous, kink-aware life.

Description

Most of us sat through high school sex ed, but very few of us were taught how to navigate a truly expansive, pleasure-forward, ethically non-monogamous, kink-aware life.

This class is for adults who want more than the basics.
More skill. More confidence. More nuance. More pleasure.

Whether you’re exploring multiple partners, sex parties, power dynamics, or simply want to feel more comfortable and competent in your sexuality, this class offers practical tools, cultural fluency, and real-world strategy.

This is the educated slut — grounded in safety, consent, and confidence.

Inside This Class We’ll Cover:

  • Making condoms sexy and seamless - how to turn protection into part of the experience — not an interruption.
  • STI testing literacy - how often to test, what panels to request, navigating disclosure conversations, and finding affordable or community-based testing options.
  • Understanding STIs - risk awareness without fear. Facts without shame. Practical decision-making for people who actually have sex.
  • Preventative medications overview - a high-level look at options such as PrEP, PEP, and other preventative strategies. (We are not medical providers; always consult your healthcare professional for personalized advice.)
  • Threesome, foursome & moresome etiquette - managing energy, communication, jealousy, and attention flow — before, during, and after.
  • Sex party etiquette & hygiene logistics - what to bring. What not to do. How to read a room. How to be invited back.
  • Lube literacy - Silicone vs. water-based vs. hybrid — and how to match lubricant to activity for maximum comfort and pleasure.
  • How to ask someone to play at an event - direct and confident approaches that respect autonomy and consent
  • Modern consent frameworks
  • And many more deliciously practical topics.

Questions & Anonymity

Curiosity is hot. Questions are welcome.
If you’d like a topic addressed but prefer not to speak up during class, you’re invited to DM Princess_Raven privately. Your question will be incorporated into the class without identifying you. you can reach out to her on FetLife, or email at Info@RavensProductions.com

There are no embarrassing questions here — only opportunities to expand your skill set.

Who can take this class?

  • Anybody over the age of 18
  • Any gender
  • Both monogamous people, poly people, curious, swinger, etc. anybody!
  • you can come alone or with a partner, or several, or friends, etc.
  • All levels
  • You do NOT have to be a member of Black Bird to take this class :) Anybody can buy a ticket

About the Instructor: Littlebit

Born and raised in the sultry South, Littlebit is a kink-savvy Southern Belle with over 14 years of experience immersed in the lifestyle, including kink and consensual non-monogamy communities. She understands the nuance, etiquette, and cultural fluency that keep sex-positive spaces thriving. With 18 years as a medical professional, she is passionate about equipping adults with practical, shame-free knowledge for safer, more confident exploration. She has also taught on these topics at several premiere conventions within the BDSM community.

About Feather & Flame

We are a new studio located in Burlington, MA that opened in fall of 2025. We offer classes and social events for the BDSM and alternative relationship community.

Our exact address is sent out to ticket holders about 2 days before your class; this is for safety and security reasons.

Parking: We have plenty of free parking in our lot!

Accessibility: there is a flight of stairs to our unit, and our bathrooms are not large enough to accommodate a wheelchair, unfortunately. Service dogs are of course welcome, but we do request a heads-up please. If there are any other reasonable accommodations that we can make for you, please reach out!

Financial Accessibility: If you would like to help us out with set up and breakdown for the class, we are happy to offer you a discounted ticket! Simply select "volunteer ticket" at checkout.

Privacy: For all in-person events, we require to check everyone's ID and everyone must sign a liability waiver for each class. This is standard at most facilities and ensures the safety of our community. If you are unwilling to unable to comply with either of these, then unfortunately our events are not a good fit for you!

  • ID's are checked in person, upon arrival, and are not scanned, photographed, or kept on file in any way. Just like walking into a bar. Your ID cannot be expired, and we need the real thing - a photo of an ID is not legally acceptable ID.
  • Raven is typically the person who is checking IDs, and if it another staff member - they have signed an NDA as part of working at our facility, which lasts for many years after finishing working with F&F. We only hire staff who respect privacy and discretion.
  • Liability waivers are emailed in advance so that you can review it, and is facilitated by a trusted, 3rd party software that is used by several large-scale kink conventions.
  • if you have any questions, reach out to us at Info@FeatherAndFlameConsulting.com

Visit our website at: www.FeatherAndFlameConsulting.com to see our other events, or apply to become a member! Membership gives you exclusive access to social events and advanced level classes (many of which are hidden, invite-only classes)

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