Kinky Connections: How to Meet Play Partners

Meeting the right play partners can feel overwhelming, especially when no one ever taught you how kink social dynamics actually work. This class breaks down the unspoken rules, common pitfalls, and proven strategies for connecting with others safely and authentically. You’ll learn how to present yourself well, spot red and green flags, and navigate the community with confidence. No cruising, no pressure—just real skills that make your kink journey smoother and more fulfilling.

Who this class is for:

• This class is for all levels of experience
• You can attend solo or with a partner
• Anyone can attend - Black Bird membership is NOT required to attend this class. We recommend taking this class or Intro to D/s before applying for membership.
• This class is NOT a hookup/ cruising event

What you will learn:

• Kink social etiquette (it’s very different from the vanilla world!)
• Recommended apps/ websites to meet people through
• Tips for building profiles
• The Event Bullseye social networking system
• Red flags to look out for
• Green flags to look out for
• Vetting and safety techniques

What to bring:

• A notebook and something to write with
• Optional: A water bottle with a spill-proof lid

Water/snacks:

• We will have an assortment of snacks available (fruit snacks, chewy bars, etc)
• We also provide hot tea and filtered water

Venue:

Black Bird Atelier is a new studio in Burlington, MA. We are located in a small office building with ample free parking. Exact address is sent out to ticket holders 2 days before the class. Burlington’s newest space dedicated to education, empowerment, and authentic connection.

About the instructor:

Princess_Raven is the owner of Black Bird Atelier, and has over a decade of experience as a Professional Dominant, and 5 years experience as a dating and relationship coach specializing in alternative relationship dynamics.
She enjoys making the fulfillment of kink more accessible through education and events. She enjoys helping people get connected and giving them the tools and confidence to take the next step in their kink journey.

Cancellation policy:

• 48 hrs
• Please do not come if you are sick. We are happy to roll your ticket over to a different class if you are sick

FAQ:

• Membership is NOT required in order to take this class, since it is an intro level class.
• You can take this class with a partner(s) or solo.
• All classes are 18+ and we check IDs