BDSM Negotiation Basics w/ GreenMir

Presented by @GreenMir from WickedGrounds

Negotiating is a critical skill for building BDSM scenes, dynamics and relationships that work. But negotiating doesn't necessarily come naturally — especially for those of us who are just entering the kink scene.

Join us for a Kink 101 session on how to negotiate for exactly what you want in the BDSM scene and relationships. We'll talk about:

• Negotiation styles
• Pre-scene negotiations
• How to negotiate without killing the mood
• Checking in during and after the scene
• Negotiating and check-ins for ongoing BDSM dynamics

Drawing on what we know about the psychology of a scene, we'll learn how to negotiate as partners toward a BDSM style that is hotter, more fun, and more powerful for all partners in a dynamic.This series welcomes all genders, orientations, and dynamic styles. This workshop is designed for newcomers to BDSM but is open to anyone who wants new tools to improve their BDSM communications.

Event Details

Date: 7th March 2023 (Tuesday)
Time: 6pm - 9pm (Door opens at 6pm)
Location: San Jose
(You will receive the exact address in your confirmation email)
Instructor: @GreenMir

Tickets: $3 - $15
(Pay as you can)

6:00pm - 6:30pm: Door opens for social
6:30pm - 8:30pm: Class & discussion
8:30pm - 9pm: Social, wind down & clean up

Who's teaching the class?

Miriam Green has been in the public kink scene for neary twenty years in the Austin, Houston and San Francisco scenes. They teach a series of KINK 101 classes on the SF kink community, BDSM negotiations, and dating while kinky. They also are the owner of Wicked Grounds, San Francisco's first and only kink cafe & boutique.

What do you need to bring?

Your kinky self. Maybe a notebook and a pen 📝

Covid stuff

1. Being vaccinated is a must.
2. Mask is required.
3. There will be disinfecting wipes / spray and paper towels, and hand sanitiser.