A Complete Guide to Exploring Submission

$400 Early Bird Tickets until 8/1/2023

$500 After that

So you think you have a submissive side... but now what? Many people who get involved in BDSM don’t really understand what that entails or how to stand out as a skilled and desirable player. This 8-week course is designed to discuss all that encompasses being a submissive, helping participants to hone their bottom skills and step further down the path of expertise in their roles. The beginning of any power exchange relationship is very important. Setting up expectations, learning the wants and needs of your partner, and building a foundation for future exploration and growth are all equally important to that process. Even if you are not new to the lifestyle, you won't want to miss this extensive training as you will gain an abundance of information as well as see exciting demos! Miss Mackenzee will help to cover some of the questions people have when navigating their role as a s-type. We’ll go over ways to keep the energy alive and fresh in established relationships and how to express your commitment.

In addition to the discussions, there will also be a Discord channel created for participants to join. (You’re able to change your name to remain somewhat anonymous if you desire). Information on how to access this will be sent 1 week prior to the start of the course. You’ll be able to chat with other students, Miss Mackenzee, and Parker Leigh. It's your chance to ask any mentor questions you may have that may come up during the course of the time together. This is a great way to build a community and connect with others who are in a similar position as you. The channel will remain open even after the course is finished. You’ll get access to the recordings of each lesson, worksheets, journal entries, and many additional resources.

When taught as individual workshops, each lesson is typically $25-$99 and my private mentoring is $150-$250 an hour so what you get access to with a ticket to this course far exceeds its value. This is an opportunity to develop your submission under the instruction of a veteran Dominant. Not only will she share her 20+ years of knowledge with you but her 24/7 live-in submissive, Parker Leigh, will also be joining each week and will be available to answer questions as well. If you are unable to pay in full and purchase a ticket, please contact me and we can discuss other payment arrangements and options.

There will be over 20 hours of class time. Don’t worry, lessons will be recorded so if you’re unable to join every week, you won’t miss out. Class will be every Tuesday at 7pm EST.

The schedule will break down as follows:

● Week 1: Dipping Your Toes Into BDSM
September 12
2.5Hours

• Learn tons of BDSM terminology to feel confident moving forward
• Build your negotiation skills for more fulfilling kink adventures
• Understanding what informed consent looks like
• Etiquette to learn the Do's and Don'ts of entering a public dungeon

● Week 2: Introduction to Power Exchange Relationships
September 19
2.5 hours

• Psychology behind BDSM & kink
• Different types of dynamics & choosing what is right for you
• Responsibilities as a submissive/bottom
• Getting the most out of your D/s relationship
• Figuring out rituals and protocols that feed your submissive heart
• Emotional honesty and the importance of vulnerability
• Common pitfalls to avoid in your authority transfer relationship
• And much more

● Week 3: Discovering Yourself
September 26
3 hours

• Taking your role as a bottom further and what that entails
• Do’s & Don’ts of being a submissive & bottom
• Effectively communicating your needs
• Exploring what rewards and punishments look like for you
• Know your voice and it's power
• Solo training and preparing for your future top or Dom
• Understanding what you need in a Dominant
• Learning what you have to offer your D-type
• Breaking free from shame surrounding submission

● Week 4: Safety and Other Vital Information
October 3
2.5 hours

• How to identify problematic and dangerous behaviors early
• Different ways to say no
• Understanding our limits and when to use your safe word
• Essential items for your safety kit
• When to seek medical assistance
• Help with avoiding injuries
• Red flags and how to keep yourself safe on your search
• Know the difference between a healthy power exchange relationship and a toxic one
• Proper vetting techniques
• Venturing out after trauma

● Week 5: Understanding Headspaces, Drop and Aftercare
October 10
3 hours

• Tons of tricks to achieve subspace
• Ways to get your Dominant in the headspace to play
• What happens to the brain and its chemicals during kinky fun
• Preparing your body and mind for a scene
• Understanding what drop is and how to combat it
• Why aftercare is so important
• What to have in your aftercare bag
• And much more!

● Week 6: Pain Processing and Other Practical Skills
October 17
2.5 hours

• How to have longer scenes
• Building the skills to seduce your Dominant
• Establishing your relationship with pain and it's boundaries
• Best stretching exercises for before and after play
• Bettering your expertise as a bondage bottom
• Ways to be more present and in touch with your body
• Breathing techniques and our favorite items to help you get through a scene
• Exercises to help you turn pain into pleasure
• Ways to feel more like a badass bottom

● Week 7: Exploring Service in Your Relationship
October 24
2 hours

• Anticipatory service and how to better your talents
• Learning how to better balance your everyday responsibilities with those as a submissive
• How to get the most out of serving
• Gear and toys to aid in your service
• Navigating people pleasing tendencies
• Connection through service
• Being useful even if you don't identify as service-oriented
• Making sure you are not being taken advantage of

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● Week 8: Standing Out As a submissive/bottom
November 7
2.5 hours

• Navigating conversations and better negotiation skills for potential play
• 10 tips for successful scenes in public
• Learn ways to approach a Dom
• Spicy ways to incorporate service into your dynamic
• Setting healthy boundaries and honoring them
• Explore how to playfully interact to get what you want
• Providing the best aftercare for your Top
• Q&A time