Creating Dynamic Service in Your Relationships

Class will be recorded. Purchasing a ticket gives you access to class for up to a week afterwards.

Class Description:

“What do you get out of doing things for other people?” I’m sure that’s a question that gets asked a lot when people express their interest in providing service to others. There’s a common misconception that service submissives are just doormats and all they do is take commands. This workshop is designed to shatter that myth into oblivion. When you decide to add service into any dynamic or relationship, it’s a delicate subject and we’ll discuss ways to negotiate for that. Maybe you need help learning how to better balance your everyday responsibilities with those as a submissive. Regardless of what is bringing you to this class, you’re sure to walk away with some new tips in your arsenal. Gain the perspective of a submissive who has been serving various Dominants for over 10 years as well as her current Dominant of 7 years on what they like most about this aspect to their dynamic.

Conversations will also include:

• How to get the most out of serving as a submissive
• Ways to initiate as the submissive
• Anticipatory service
• Gear and toys to aid in your service
• Navigating people pleasing tendencies
• Connection through service

Regardless of gender identity, sexuality, relationship status, experience level, age, or race, all are welcome to join this class.

Presenter Information:

Parker has been in the BDSM lifestyle for 12 years. She has been a Professional Dominant/switch/submissive for the past 7 years. She has experience with all types of play as a top and bottom as well as different relationship dynamics. She has served a few different Dominants of varying genders. For the past seven years, she has been happily collared by Miss Mackenzee and has been Her demo bottom and taught alongside Her at many events and organizations across the nation including Kink.com, SF Citadel, Wicked Grounds, Voxbody Studios, Adventures in Sexuality, and Black Thorn/Sacred Muse. Hearing a bottom’s perspective and experience is an important aspect of kink and sexual education which she loves providing.

She prides herself on her openness and approachability. Consent is a huge part of her teaching and believes it is one of the key elements to a successful dynamic of any kind. She has mentored numerous submissives and switches over the years. Parker aims to create a warm and welcoming learning atmosphere where people feel they can ask whatever questions they have.