ONLINE - As You Wish: Exploring Service in Your Relationship

As two people who have engaged in this type of dynamic together for the last 7 years, you’re sure to gain a wealth of knowledge about this topic from both sides of the slash. Maybe you’ve been curious about power exchange relationships with a strong service foundation. Or maybe you’ve tried it before and are looking to delve deeper. Regardless of what is drawing you to this class, you’re bound to walk away with a fresh look on this connected subject. If you're feeling a little lost on where to start, don't worry! There will be talks about what it looks like to figure out what you want out of the arrangement you seek.

Within this workshop, there will be conversations about ways to add intentional time into your dynamic to connect in such a way that the authority figure accepts and appreciates what you are offering. There are countless folks in the BDSM scene that aren't service-oriented but want to be useful to their top or Dominant. If you find yourself in that situation, this seminar will give you the tools to manage and possibly compromise with your partner. One complication that can arise from service-oriented relationships is where the s-type feels taken advantage of. There will be guidance with that and ways to help Dominants give back to the one who provides aid. Throughout the class, you’ll see tons of live demos and examples of how service can look for you.

Some topics we will discuss:

• Spicy ways to incorporate service into your dynamic
• Setting healthy boundaries and honoring them
• Responsibilities of all parties involved
• Negotiating this aspect of your relationship
• Becoming skilled at anticipatory service
• Balancing tasks with your other obligations
• People pleasers and how to navigate complications
• Ways to make sure all parties involved are satisfied and feel fulfilled

There will be 4 hours of teaching plus a 30 minute break in the middle so you can stretch your legs and get something to eat without missing anything! We will be going from beginner to more advanced concepts of service so this workshop is open to everyone and every level of experience.

Class will be recorded! So if you purchase a ticket, you will have access to the recording afterwards