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Name Poly Speed Dating & Friending: PDX! - hosted by Lady Vivus
Producer Lady Vivus
Time Thursday 27th of July 2023, 7:00 pm–10:00 pm (PDT)
Location Misfits Bar + Lounge, Portland, Oregon, 2530 NE 82nd Ave, Portland, OR 97220
Category Social
This event is 21+ only.

Poly Speed Dating & Friending: PDX! - hosted by Lady Vivus

Looking for a merger to help split things three ways? We’ll help you find a new partner. Think of us as a poly-tree & come find your roots. Even if you’re non-mahogamous…bring your poly family for “aromantic” time.


Are you edgy? You might end up in a triangle. If you don’t succeed in the first round, you can “triad” again. Poly, non-monogamous, or ENM.

Join us around the kitchen table and possibly find a new potential partner, mentor, friend, see a comet, or maybe even an ethical slut! And remember, bi-far…consent is super sexy. I always have an un-paralleled time at these events. This event is open to all genders & orientations!

How Does the Rotation Work?

There are “multiple” single-person dates that are minutes with 2 minutes in between and then we change rounds; that's 15 dates for our speed dates. During the open mingle, you may meet the other potential dates, try new date locations, or visit your favorite location/person(s) again! Everything “hinges” on how you choose to participate.

Multi-tinerary (Speed Dating Itinerary)

6:30 pm: Open relationships - (Doors Open)
7:15 pm - 7:30 pm: Boundaries - (Event Instructions)
7:30-9:30: Multiple fun stuff - (Speed Dating)
9:30 - 10: Poly Connections - (Open Mingling)

What's hot at Misfits?

Join us at Portland's newest premier LGBTQ+ space. Enjoy cock & mocktails & food while meeting like-minded pleasure positive people. Have a pool party at the foosball table. Here’s to hoping you walk away with some poly in your pocket if you’re not too saturated to attend.

Are you Role or Gender Balancing this Event?

This event is geared at all genders & orientations, so there will be a variety of genders in your personal experience. Why we do this is to also help create friendships & connections outside of our own polycuyles'. This means connections of all varieties are possible!

Outfit Recommendations:

We highly recommend you dress up in your finest. No one turned away for attire but presentation matters. Please cover your bits & be "french vanilla" to the door. You may change once you enter as well!

Who Can Attend?

The craving for human connection has been powerful in recent years post-pandemic, and we wanted to create a hub to role play & set fire with that initial connection. All genders, sexualities, gender expressions, relationship styles, etc. are encouraged to attend. We support and promote all LGBTQ+ identities, trans, gender expansive, BIPOC, kinky, and relationship expansive or mono folks. Poly, ace, aromantic, bisexual, demi, ENM, FWB, heterosexual, homosexual, pan, platonic…all are welcome!!!

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This event is hosted/produced by:
Lady Vivus
Unique classes for unconventional folx. Lady V is a spiritually & culturally driven Bootblack, Switchinatrix & Hucow.
This event is featuring:
Lady Vivus
Unique classes for unconventional folx. Lady V is a spiritually & culturally driven Bootblack, Switchinatrix & Hucow.
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