Conversations to Create a Scene

Class Description
How do you approach a scene? Would you like some practice with asking for a scene with your partner or for pickup play at a party? Are you confident in your ability to say what you are looking to give or receive as a top or a bottom?
Negotiating a new scene requires a conversation for the new-to-Kink and the seasoned Kinkster. This is a chance to workshop your ideas and to practice the art of scene creation.
After the obligatory discussion about risk and consent we will get into what happens next. Working in groups, we will discuss the basics, the importance of details, and perhaps even take a dive into the depths of desire. A chance to talk and learn from each other, by shared experience and new perspectives. Bring your kinky ideas and questions or use one of the prompts provided. Let's figure out how to make it happen.

Presenter Bio
Hey kinky people! Nettlencatnip here as facilitator to this event “Conversations to Create a Scene.” I make no claim to being a professional kinkster, but I do find that I am very lucky to have found CUFF and a like minded group of friends who want to play and explore this underworld we call Kink. I have facilitated rope and impact classes. Most recently, I organized a Life Drawing event that was AMAZING because of the community who participated. In my vanilla life, I work in the non-profit world, teach yoga and herbal classes. My kinky interests include bondage, rope, impact, D/s relationships and, oh, well my brain never stops asserting curiosity. So, my hope for this gathering is for all of us to collaborate and share, whether we are experienced or not. I will have prompts for scene ideas, if we need them, so no worries there. And I always bring tea and cookies if that helps you decide to join us!

Updated COVID vaccine recommended, please stay home if you are feeling sick.

Location

Location will be disclosed after registration.

Meeting Agenda

-This event is open to all members of the community regardless of CUFF membership status in good standing.

• The first portion of a CUFF meeting is used for announcements and taking care of business items.
• Attending a CUFF Meeting is a privilege and the CUFF Board reserves the right to kick anyone out who may be disrespectful in the space or towards anyone at the meeting.

Pricing

This event is free to all!

Conduct at CUFF Events

CUFF strives to foster an environment where everyone feels welcome and respected. Please be mindful of others and take care to avoid conduct that may cause others to feel uncomfortable. Please refrain from:

• Unwanted and intentional physical contact
• Unwelcome and inappropriate sexual activities, advances, comments, bullying, or invasion of sexual privacy both in person and online.
• Offensive comments related to gender, gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, disability, mental illness, neuro(a)typicality, physical appearance, body size, race, or religion.
  If you witness or experience any of the above, we encourage you to fill out our Incident Response Form (linked above), and/or contact our incident response team @Hawker701, @MzKali, @StefLife, @ZenMonkey. You can also email cuffincidents@gmail.com for more information, or to directly report misconduct or a consent violation. You do not need to be a CUFF member to report an incident.