Terrified and Turned on: FearPlay with Boss Boar
Fear is a powerful tool to add to your kinky arsenal, but creating a scary scene is more than just using knives and masks (though they are wonderful). Fear play is the interaction of trust and danger. To orchestrate an effective fear play scene requires an insight into how the mind works and if you get it right, you can create an incredibly intense and erotic scene for you and your partner.
In this class, students will learn the following:
- How to effectively negotiate a fearplay scene.
- The basic physiology of fear.
- Foundational concepts of fearplay.
- Useful examples and scenarios.
- And maybe hear a story or two!
With this strong understanding, you’ll be able to create your own delightfully wicked scenes and make your bottom shiver and (s)cream in terror.
BossBoar is a polyamorous Dominant who combines years as a BDSM instructor, martial artist, and paramedic with a passion for amateur psychology and generally terrible things. He has been described as a “hardcore sadist,” “you motherfucker,” and “oh god, please no no no!” He likes to design scenes with the intention to terrify. Over the years, his efforts resulted in every response from “he may actually be a sociopath” to “that’s so sweet!”... sometimes in the same scene. He draws from his professional and personal experiences to create classes that inform and entertain. He has previously presented for the SF Citadel, Black Thorn, kink.com, SF Foundations, West Coast Bound, and Dark Odyssey: Surrender.
