If you have ever wanted to find a COVID-conscious day full of kinky classes, speed-dating, and ending with an amazing play party - Congratulations! You’ve found it!!!!
We are very excited to put this event on for our local kinky communities and are working very hard to make this a day of fun and education where you can connect, explore, learn, and play with like-minded people! Join us for a day centered on impact play and connect with other impact lovers of every variety!
Who is This Event For?
This event is open to adults of all gender identities, sexual orientations, relationship configurations, races, ethnicities, body types, roles, and experience levels. At BOBA Munch, we seek to honor our commitment to POC communities by giving a platform to Asian kinksters and highlighting the diversity of all those interested in learning kink. In collaboration with all our friends, allies, and community partners, we celebrate this diversity by opening this event to all.
Our doors will open at 11:45.
Create and hone the foundation of your impact play knowledge with teachings from BDSM legend Rain DeGrey. Rain will teach skills that you may even be able to use that very night at the SPANK! Party including:
If you are newer to flogging or getting back into it, this hybrid instruction/workshop format class taught by GlassHands will have you throwing with a flogger in no time at all. Learn the basics and start to practice right away! This workshop will:
Bring a partner to practice with if you can. If you come by yourself we will try to pair up people for the practice component.
Come learn how to leave your toy bag behind! Boots and hands are all you need to have a great time. Boss Boar will be presenting on the basics of slapping, punching, and kicking. You will learn:
Between presentation, demonstration, and a quick Q&A, you will come away with the rock bottom basics on how to start your journey into rough body play.
People will be separated by appetite, either top or bottom. (Switches can pick a side or wait to see what side is needed more). You will get two minutes with each person and a chance to connect afterwards. This part of the event is about meeting people who complement your kinky appetite, not about identity or gender. The people you meet will be worth meeting even if they aren't your appetite. You will be most successful if you come open to making connections, no matter what kind of connections they may be.
Take a dinner break before heading to San Francisco’s hottest spanking party - SPANK! which will be held at Transform1060!
The SPANK! party is a pansexual celebration of that erotic art of spanking - from sensual sensation play to butt-blistering beatings, and everything in between. While spanking is the focus of the night, only your imagination can limit the kind of fun you can have at San Francisco's hottest spanking party!
SPANK! will Feature:
You must be fully vaccinated and boosted as of the day of the event to join us at any Bop Buffet event.
Masks are required during classes and speed-dating
The SPANK! party will also require proof of vax and booster and other COVID-safety measures. Please see the SPANK party page for additional information
What is BOBA Munch?
BOBA Munch is a community for the Bay Area Asian American community to connect. Our in person monthly munches will be on the Second Sundays of the month (Unless otherwise stated). Our goal is to empower, support, and connect Asian American identifying individuals in the kink space. Whatever amount of Asian you have, if you have Asian roots and can relate to being an Asian minority in America, come meet others who have had similar experiences. The idea is to have meetups at various boba places around the Bay and connect with your fellow Asian Americans. Join our discord by attending in-person munches or talking with a current BOBA Munch moderator or event host!
What is AfterDark Events?
AfterDark Events is a POC-, femme-, queer-, neurodivergent-, and disabled-led organization that organizes exciting, curated, vaccinated events for the San Francisco Bay Area kink community. All attendees to our events are vaccinated, boosted and screened for COVID-19 before each event. On Fetlife, follow or friend us, and also join the AfterDark Events group to keep up with our events.