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Producer: AfterDark
Time: Saturday 18th of June 2022, 12:00 pm–Sunday 19th of June 2022, 1:00 am (PDT)
Location: Wicked Grounds Annex, San Francisco, 293 8th Street

BOP Buffet!!!

A glorious multi-course smorgasboard of impact play delights to tease and titillate your kinky tastebuds!

If you have ever wanted to find a COVID-conscious day full of kinky classes, speed-dating, and ending with an amazing play party - Congratulations! You’ve found it!!!!


BOBA Munch and AfterDark Events are proud to present BOP BUFFET!!!

We are very excited to put this event on for our local kinky communities and are working very hard to make this a day of fun and education where you can connect, explore, learn, and play with like-minded people! Join us for a day centered on impact play and connect with other impact lovers of every variety!

Who is This Event For?
This event is open to adults of all gender identities, sexual orientations, relationship configurations, races, ethnicities, body types, roles, and experience levels. At BOBA Munch, we seek to honor our commitment to POC communities by giving a platform to Asian kinksters and highlighting the diversity of all those interested in learning kink. In collaboration with all our friends, allies, and community partners, we celebrate this diversity by opening this event to all.

Our doors will open at 11:45.

12:15-1:30 - Hors D'oeuvres Course - Spanking with Rain DeGrey

Create and hone the foundation of your impact play knowledge with teachings from BDSM legend Rain DeGrey. Rain will teach skills that you may even be able to use that very night at the SPANK! Party including:

  • Consent and negotiating spanking play.
  • Where and how to hit people safely.
  • Different techniques for spanking including warmup, hand-shapes, etc.
  • Show and tell with various spanking implements.
  • Start your kinky play party journey on a firm footing by learning the basics from one of the most - experienced players around.

1:45:-3:00- Amuse Bouche Course - Flogging Workshop with GlassHands

If you are newer to flogging or getting back into it, this hybrid instruction/workshop format class taught by GlassHands will have you throwing with a flogger in no time at all. Learn the basics and start to practice right away! This workshop will:

  • Teach you basic and/or intermediate flogging techniques and how to flog safely.
  • Demonstrate the uses of different floggers and discuss how material, weight, length, etc. affect the experience for tops and bottoms.
  • Highlight the best postures and positions for flogging.
  • Let you practice throwing floggers to help you build confidence in your flogging skills.
  • We will have a few floggers available for practicing with but we encourage you to bring your own if you have some.

Bring a partner to practice with if you can. If you come by yourself we will try to pair up people for the practice component.

3:15-4:30 PM - Potage Course - Rough Body Play with BossBoar

Come learn how to leave your toy bag behind! Boots and hands are all you need to have a great time. Boss Boar will be presenting on the basics of slapping, punching, and kicking. You will learn:

  • The basics of negotiating rough body play.
  • The prime spots for impact around the body.
  • How to appropriately hold your hand for different types of impact.
  • What parts of the foot and leg are good for impact.
  • How to appropriately deliver impact around the body.

Between presentation, demonstration, and a quick Q&A, you will come away with the rock bottom basics on how to start your journey into rough body play.

5:00-7:00 PM - Appetizer - Kinky Speed-Dating With Psychokitty

  • Find people into impact play or with whom you may share other kinks with.
  • Find people with whom to explore new kinks.
  • Find new friends in the community.
  • Find new people to play with.

People will be separated by appetite, either top or bottom. (Switches can pick a side or wait to see what side is needed more). You will get two minutes with each person and a chance to connect afterwards. This part of the event is about meeting people who complement your kinky appetite, not about identity or gender. The people you meet will be worth meeting even if they aren't your appetite. You will be most successful if you come open to making connections, no matter what kind of connections they may be.

7:00-8:00 PM - Break For Dinner

Take a dinner break before heading to San Francisco’s hottest spanking party - SPANK! which will be held at Transform1060!

8:00 PM-1:00 AM - Main Course (and Dessert) - SPANK!

The SPANK! party is a pansexual celebration of that erotic art of spanking - from sensual sensation play to butt-blistering beatings, and everything in between. While spanking is the focus of the night, only your imagination can limit the kind of fun you can have at San Francisco's hottest spanking party!

SPANK! will Feature:

  • Ice-breakers to help you connect.
  • House tops - Come & get a spanking courtesy of our friendly & experienced house tops!
  • Vending by Wicked Grounds.
  • Delicious spread for when hunger strikes.
  • Atmospheric vibes in a unique community dungeon space providing a great backdrop to a night of spanking fun!
  • Outdoor social and play areas - for all comfort levels.
  • More details about SPANK! are available on SPANK! party page

Important: COVID Information

You must be fully vaccinated and boosted as of the day of the event to join us at any Bop Buffet event.
Masks are required during classes and speed-dating

The SPANK! party will also require proof of vax and booster and other COVID-safety measures. Please see the SPANK party page for additional information

About the Organizers

What is BOBA Munch?
BOBA Munch is a community for the Bay Area Asian American community to connect. Our in person monthly munches will be on the Second Sundays of the month (Unless otherwise stated). Our goal is to empower, support, and connect Asian American identifying individuals in the kink space. Whatever amount of Asian you have, if you have Asian roots and can relate to being an Asian minority in America, come meet others who have had similar experiences. The idea is to have meetups at various boba places around the Bay and connect with your fellow Asian Americans. Join our discord by attending in-person munches or talking with a current BOBA Munch moderator or event host!

What is AfterDark Events?
AfterDark Events is a POC-, femme-, queer-, neurodivergent-, and disabled-led organization that organizes exciting, curated, vaccinated events for the San Francisco Bay Area kink community. All attendees to our events are vaccinated, boosted and screened for COVID-19 before each event. On Fetlife, follow or friend us, and also join the AfterDark Events group to keep up with our events.

This event is hosted/produced by:
Bay Area, California
AfterDark Events is a POC, femme, queer, neurodivergent & disabled led group serving the SF Bay Area Kink Community.
This event is featuring:
Rain DeGrey
San Francisco, CA
International educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer
Boba Munch
Bay Area, CA
For our Asian identifying kinksters!
Wicked Grounds
293 8th Street, San Francisco, CA 94103
Coffee. Kink. Community. San Francisco's home of the kinky, queer revolution.
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